Life Helps

Sometimes, being a YA means being on your own for the first time. That's why we've put together some links to help you along the physical part of that journey. Below you'll find some info on how to budget, save money, sensible grocerey shoppping, buy a car, rent an apartment, and still have fun. All those new "life 
skills" you need when on your own.  
Use the Search box in the top right corner to look for a specific question, or just scroll down and peruse the topics. As always you can email or give Mike or Amy a call if your stuck. We'd love to be your Stepping Stone! Also, if you think of a tip that should be on here - let us know!
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Creating a Budget

Creating a budget may not sound like the most exciting thing in the world to do, but it is vital in keeping your financial house in order. Before you begin to create a budget it is important to realize that in order to be successful you have to provide as much detailed information as possible. Ultimately, the end result will be able to show where your money is coming from, how much is there and where it is all going. Read More...

Grocery Shopping Tips

  1. Eat before you go. When shopping hungry, You'll tend to buy a lot more than you really need.
  2. Have a needs list at home. Have  a white board in your kitchen where you write down things you need or run out of before shopping day. Keeping a notepad & pen on top of the fridge works too! It takes a lot of the guesswork out of preparing a shopping list.
  3. Go early in the day. The store is generally less crowded and you'll have more selection of meats and produce.
  4. Try store brands. You can usually save quite a bit buying the off-brands offered in most chain stores. And the difference in quality is usually not even noticeable.
  5. Get a store savings card. A growing trend with grocery stores is a customer loyalty card where you can get special savings not available to other when you use the card. You can often save quite a bit painlessly.
  6. Buy it on Sale and Stock Up on Groceries. So, how long does bacon last in the fridge? Can I freeze tomatoes? Answers about how long foods last, and how to store them can be found at StillTasty.com
More Grocery Shopping Tips...

* If you ran out of something and your in the middle of creating a meal, try FoodSubs to find something that can replace that ingredient. It's like a Cook's Thesaurus!

Doing Laundry - Stain Removal Tips

Act quickly. Fresh stains make stain removal an easy task. Give yourself the upper hand by treating stains as promptly after they happen as possible. If your stains are on a non-washable fabric, take them to the dry cleaners as soon as possible. Be sure to point out the stain to the dry cleaner and describe the nature of the stain. This makes the likelihood of stain removal success greater.
Follow the directions. Follow the directions on any stain removal products you use. Don't forget to follow washing directions on the stained clothes. Getting the stain out, won't make much difference if you ruin the clothing in the process.
Test in a hidden area. Don't forget to test any stain removal methods on a hidden seam or other inconspicous spot. You want to check for colorfastness before applying a treatment to a large or noticeable area of the clothing. Do not use if the color changes.
Remove stains from the back. Place the stained garment with the stain upside down on top of a clean white cloth. Apply stain treatment to the back of the stain. Our goal is to remove the stain from the clothing instead of making it travel all the way through to the other side. Make sure to move the stained clothing to a fresh spot as the stain begins to remove itself from the clothing and onto the cloth.
Be careful with dry cleaning solvents. Make sure to rinse thoroughly, and allow to air dry any garment that's had dry cleaning solvents used on it. These solvents can be a fire hazard in a washing machine. Remember never to put dry cleaning solvents directly into the washing machine.
Be wary of even color removal with bleach. Bleaching only one stained spot on a garment may result in uneven color removal for the entire garment. Consider using the appropriate bleach listed in the garment tag to bleach the entire garment.
Don't mix stain removal products. Mixing different chemicals can cause toxic odors and mixed results on your clothing.
8. Wash stain treated items. Remember to thoroughly wash items that have treated with stain removal products to remove product residue and also the stain residue.
Be patient. Stain removal can take time. Sometimes repeat treatments may be required. Be sure to thoroughly check the garment before drying to determine if a repeat treatment is necessary. Drying will cause a stain to set.
Some stains won't leave. For some stains, no stain removal idea or tip can get rid of them without damaging the clothing or its color. But take heart in the fact that the other 9 general stain removal tips will give you a fighting chance against all the stains in your laundry basket. Just a few simple guidelines can take the guesswork out of stain removal.





Renting an apartment

Renters' Insurance
Before you move in, it is important for you to obtain renters' insurance. This is a special insurance policy that protects the contents of your apartment from loss or damage due to fire or theft. A policy of this type is really quite affordable and premiums are calculated based upon the value of your furniture and other personal possessions. Most companies offer policies starting at $20,000 in coverage, which costs about $150 a year. You can obtain renters' insurance by contacting your family insurance agent. Remember... any insurance carried by the property owner only insures the buildings. Protecting the contents of your apartment is your own responsibility.
Apartment Walk Through
Right before you are scheduled to move in, it is important to walk through the apartment with the leasing agent. This allows you to confirm that all preparations have been completed and the apartment is prepared to your satisfaction. If you have a digital camera, it is a good idea to take a few "BEFORE" shots of each room in the apartment.
Arrange for Utilities
Because utilities such as gas and electric, cable television, Internet service and telephone service will be placed in your name, it is your responsibility to call and order service before you move in. Depending upon your credit history, these suppliers may request a refundable deposit. This will also help you to start building a credit history in your own name. More Renting Tips...

Buying a New Car

Don't.
Ride the bus. Ride a bike. Buy a used car. Flush dollar bills down the toilet until the urge passes. Just don't buy a brand-new car. As a twenty-something YA, you're considered a bad credit risk and an even worse insurance risk. Payments, insurance, registration, maintenance and gas will consume a disproportionately large amount of your paycheck. You'll be car-poor, condemned to Friday-night cruising because you haven't got the cash for a date. 
Still interested?  OK. Then here's a few tips to try and save some money anyway. But you've been warned.
Arrange financing before you go to a dealer
This is more about protecting your choices than anything else. Check your credit score and get approved for a bank or credit union loan first; that way, when the red mist descends at the dealership, you won't feel compelled to take what the dealer offers. You can negotiate harder if you know your credit passes muster. If the dealer can do better than your bank, fine. But typically those 0% deals go to buyers with long, stellar credit histories and a home of their own, not to people like you with short credit histories.
If your credit is marginal (a credit score below 620 or so), stick with a bank. Auto dealers can work any number of tricks with financing -- seen the signs that read "We Finance Anybody"? -- but most of them are hard to understand and all of them are expensive. If a bank won't make you a car loan, you really, really should not be buying a car. If your credit requires a co-signer, fix your credit before you try to buy a car. Please.
Unless you enter a dealership intending to lease rather than buy, don't switch horses midstream. Leasing requires its own homework, and it's rarely a good deal for first-time buyers.
Talk to your insurance agent
Finding out that your insurance payment can be larger than your car payment is quite a shock -- and it happens. Generally, the kinds of cars young people like are the ones insurers don't. Think four doors and no turbocharger. And even if the rates aren't outrageous, consider how expensive a car might be to fix. Those rear-mounted spare tires on sport-utility vehicles look butch, but they tend to take the brunt of parking-lot impacts rather than the bumper, crushing into the rear hatch and turning a scrape into a major repair.
If you're financing, you won't leave the dealership without insurance coverage. Better to arrange it first, with no surprises, than to be forced to take what's available at 5:00 on a Saturday afternoon.
Have a real down payment
You need a cash down payment of least 20%, excluding any rebates, or otherwise you're "upside down" from Day 1. Here's why: 
Rebates are manufacturers' way of cutting the price without cutting the sticker. A new car with an MSRP of $17,000 and a rebate of $2,000 is in fact worth $15,000 on the pitiless open market. Using only your rebate effectively means you have no equity in the car -- and once the key is turned and the depreciation clock starts ticking, you're in over your head.
Many manufacturers offer additional small rebates for first-time buyers and recent college graduates. Those count, because everybody doesn't get them.
Say no to the finance guy
You'll have to visit, just to sign the paperwork. It's his job to sell you a few extras along the way. Say, "Just the car, please." No Scotchgard (you can buy a can for five bucks at Wal-Mart), no undercoating (you won't keep this baby long enough for it to rust), no credit life insurance (you have no spouse and kids to protect). Say no to an extended warranty. Standard warranties typically run three years -- and lucky you, warranties on cheaper cars are getting longer. You have until the standard warranty expires to opt for the pricey extended warranties. You should know by then whether or not you'll need one.
Don't pay for window etching (an anti-theft measure you can have done far more cheaply elsewhere) or a dealer-added alarm (ditto). Don't pay a separate charge for dealer prep.
The finance officer will also explain the fees tacked onto the price of the car. Expect to pay sales tax, registration and licensing fees, a destination charge and a small documentation fee, for filing all the paperwork. Don't pay an additional dealer markup fee (the "second sticker" you sometimes see on the car's window). Don't pay administration, delivery and handling, flooring or promotions fees.
These wallet-gouging fees and extras may be printed on the buyer's order form, with the amounts handily filled in, but that doesn't make them mandatory. 
You're probably itching by then to get behind the wheel, but make sure you carefully read what's in front of you. If you're financing through the dealer, check the interest rate and number of payments to make sure they match your expectations. Make sure your down payment is recorded and any rebates reflected.